I know I know.. i'm a bad blogger

So... I know i'm not a very good blogger, but i really need to try harder.. but I'm not sure if many people read this blog :) anyways what's going on the the Ganther life..

John and I are still working on us.. I'm pretty sure we are doing GOOD!! we are still going to counseling, but doing better :) We are spending more 'alone' time without the kids, and it's really helping us! (thanks Barb for taking them for us so often) I won tickets to Sugar Ray, so we went to that concert last night. We got a hotel room and I'm SOOOO glad we made the decision not to drive. I WOULD NOT have been able to! I didn't puke (that's pretty shocking for me) but JOHN on the other hand.. LOL.. He was praying pretty hard to the porcelain gods last night :) I still had fun :)


Rikki-Lynn is 3!!! (getting sooo big) She knows her ABC's and can count to 10. SHe has been potty trained for dang.. i guess about 9 months or so! She's TOOOOO smart for her own good sometimes though.. :) She still has her curly hair.. (i dont' wanna cut it)

Xander (x-man) will be 2 on his daddy's birthday (july 14th) He's really tall for his age (almost as tall as Dallas.. but Rikki-Lynn is taller) He's still not saying much.. talked to the ENT dr and he said to take him to a speech therapist.. so i really need to get on that.

I've been working a lot, and john has too! I HATE it when Rikki-Lynn asks me to 'not go to work' it breaks my heart :( I love that girl :)

ok that's enough rambling for now :)

for john

Ok so john needs to post this on a blog.. so here goes